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We actually started out hooking up which went to oral sex by the 3rd hookup or so, and I asked her out after about a month.
Then I waited 10 months until she was ready to have sex.
Go out, have fun, do stupid young adult things and then have the "thrill" of hooking up with each other.
If you have a full social life and aren't really missing out on parties and college fun stuff I don't think casual sex is going to seem all that appealing anymore (and keep in mind you're really building it up in your head)People usually won't stop in the heat of the moment for STD paranoia. Right, ok, not really enough of a deterrent to stop college kids who would otherwise have casual sex is what I am saying.
I also joined a fraternity and she has her interests.
Relationships are just like war, and like war, it will always continue to exist.If you're very unlucky, you can as a girl have unprotected sex with a guy who has never had any symptoms and end up with cervical cancer.Herpes can also sit in areas not covered by a condom, and by skin to skin contact you can transfer herpes from someone's thigh to your eyes/mouth/genitals/etc.Also agree about most STDs having easy fixes, except her. Nobody is like "oh, err, God, I wish so badly I could take you home hot girl from the bar but ahhhhh...I cant..risk of contracting HIV is the only thing stopping me..."It's a deterrent for me, as a college kid.
So I'm asking you, redditors who've been in a LTR from an early age, how do you resist the urge to engage in the thrill of hooking up or having casual sex?